If I want to discuss some specific behaviors of a particular moderator with the broader mod team, how should I go about doing that?
Without going into details, I worry that certain actions may reflect an individual mod's own position on a matter (or matters) rather than the general consensus on the site, and this has the effect of skewing or biasing the site towards that mod's personal tastes or views. Things like selective deletion of comments, selective closure of questions, etc. This is at odds with what I currently understand a mod's role is as a "human exception handler".
But on the other hand no one has committed murder in the first degree, these are just issues I'd like clarity on, and I'd really rather avoid creating unnecessary drama. It's also certainly possible I'm misreading things, or even if I'm not, it's not a matter worth losing sleep over or bothering the community as a whole.
So I'd rather not comment under the questions where I see this activity, nor start a dedicated meta thread, nor whine in chat.
What I'd like is a place where I can talk to the mod team as a whole. The specific mod in question is welcome to join or not as they see fit.
Is there a way I can chat with just the mod team? Ideally, can this be done as-hoc or on demand? Is there some door in chat I can knock on when I want to discuss stuff?
I ask about "on demand" because I may not use this facility now. I'd just like to have some guidance on how to access it if I need to. I'd probably use it the next time I see something I consider tendentious.
I would prefer not to flag something as then I don't know which mod or mods would handle the flag.
To be clear I mean the diamond mods of EL&U, not the community managers or other SE folk.