I have asked a question and I got detailed explanation for that question. The knowledge and gist that I got from that answer useful to me to write better questions in SE. How ever I have another question which is some what similar to earlier one. My perception is that the answer for the earlier question helps in general but not in specific. I thought asking about specific question and post that question in ELU. I got again nice and detailed and well explained answer for my second question. I am happy about that.
How ever one of the honorable user who had high reputation commented upon the answerer "it's a shame you've had to tell all this twice to the same user" by refering the user who answered both of my questions. I realized that user is a bit upset with my question. But I am trying to understand what makes him upset. Definitely the basic points of the answer for the first question are useful. But I feel like require more elaboration to write fully qualified and qualitative questions in ELU for the scenarios which I had specified in question2. At this situation please find my specific question below
(1) If there is a confusion or lack of clarity in order to apply the knowledge available in ELU or if feel like need more detailed explanation about any specific case then does asking community for explanation isn't right thing to do?
(2) As a non native English speaker inspite of my best efforts some times I cacce difficulties to absorb the knowledge from the articles written in English language and some times takesmore than necessary effort to digest it. Also some times it is difficult to apply that knowledge every where and encounter difficulties. In such cases does asking question about those difficulties in ELU is wrong?
(3) "it's a shame you've had to tell all this twice to the same user". I might be wrong, but these comments appears to me rude. What do you guys think? If you guys think it is not rude,please explain me why and explain the line which differentiate rudeness and acceptable criticism?